I did something really exciting today. I won't tell you what it is,
because I've been on this kick lately where I get extremely excited
about big life choices and for one reason or another it doesn't work
out. But just know that that's where my brain is right now.
I'm actually extremely tired of that. I've been coasting for quite some
time now, and I felt like I haven't had much control over a lot of
things. That's what part of today's action was about: moving forward.
Taking one small step for woman, but one grand jete for womankind.
Or something.
Anywho, I have some reflections and goals re: life. Are you ready to
read those thoughts? Cause they're a comin'.
I've gotten a good deal better at untangling my emotions, but there is
still work to be done. There are still some unresolved issues on the
plate that hit me as nightmares several times a week (or night), but I
think I'm getting at least a little better at coping with those. My
subconscious likes to emphasize one phase of my life over and over again
and replay it most nights. Which isn't fun. I definitely need to keep
working on figuring out what to do with those conflicts.
I also have recently realized that I'm in my "gap" time right now. For
most, it's a gap year. Maybe it will also be a full year for me, but who
knows? I wasn't sure what to expect when I arrived in Austin, but I've
recently figured out that Austin is here just to hold me over for a
while. I mean, waiting tables at a sports bar is actually really, really
fun, but I know I won't be doing it forever. There's a romantic but
still unsettling notion to the idea that I can just pick up and go
whenever I feel like it. Hence the big event referenced earlier.
In the past year, I've also gotten a good deal better at being a healthy
human being. To those who knew me in high school and college: you really
need to see how clear my skin is right now. I'm also really happy with
my weight. I still need to work on reminding myself that I don't
actually need to drop any more pounds, as well as reminding myself that
cookies and French fries does not a healthy dinner make. But we're
getting there. I'm also thinking about getting back into dance. Whose up
for partner dancing with me?
In general, I'm really excited about being 23. I think odd ages are
better than even ages. I think 23 is when the rest of the world starts
taking me more seriously. And I think that I'm really, really excited
for what's to come.